Southern California Family Law Attorney Blog

For both same-sex, and opposite-sex, couples in San Bernardino, settling child custody issues can be one of the most difficult aspects of finalizing the dissolution of a civil union or a divorce. Often times, both parents believe they know what is best for the child and, if those opinions do not mesh, it can make tenser an already emotionally charged situation.

A temporary child custody agreement has reportedly been reached between reality TV star and wedding planner, David Tutera, and his estranged domestic partner. The pair, who is in the process of dissolving their almost 10-year civil union, shares two children, a set of fraternal twins. Tutera is the biological father of one of the twins, who were carried by a surrogate, while his ex-partner fathered the other. According to reports, the arrangement stipulates that the twins will be separated, with each man being granted sole custody of his biological child.

It was not reported whether the arrangement would eventually be made a permanent child custody agreement or if it may be modified to include some sort of visitation arrangements. Despite the fact that the split has been somewhat nasty, Tutera reportedly hopes eventually the twins will be able to have a relationship.

Although it worked in this case, separating the children is not always an option or even a consideration. If you’re involved in a child custody dispute, it may be beneficial to speak with an experienced attorney to discuss your options. A lawyer can help you determine the best course of action, as well as answer any questions that you may have.

Source: Los Angeles Times, “David Tutera’s twins separated during split with Ryan Jurica“, Nardine Saad, Sep. 13, 2013